Soul-Centered Success ™

April/May 2004

An e-zine for the driven professional who wants it all without sacrificing self or soul.

Written and Published by Jill Berquist, PCC

Certified Coach and Founder of Berquist Coaching Services, LLC

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" Become aware that there are no accidents in our intelligent universe. Realize that everything that shows up in your life has something to teach you.  Appreciate everyone and everything in your life."    -  Wayne Dyer
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I.  Topic:  Attracting Success - Inspire Your Environment

II. Messages from the Masters

III. Coach's Top Picks

IV. News

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I. Topic: Attracting Success: Inspire Your Environment

Aside from a new movie with Pierce Brosnan and Juliet Moore, Laws of Attraction have to do with our own ability to draw to us that which we focus on or most desire. You may already understand this concept and can site examples when you've seen it in action for yourself or others. You know that like attracts like, and when we are on a roll, we see good things happen. Positive thoughts and energy exude, and opportunities can pop up seemingly out of nowhere! This is the great news. The other side of Attraction, is that things can come to us wrapped in a yucky packages as well. As much as we can attract that which we desire, the wise mechanism of the universe often delivers to us things that we don't think we asked for at all. These are the situations that cause disappointment, grief and a whole range of negative reactions. Just like the upward spiral of like attracting like, our fears, limiting or negative beliefs and other messages (overtly or subliminally) that we convey, create downward spirals also. We see this most clearly when we are hit with crisis after crisis, or feel stuck in a rut.  These things are in our lives for a reason, but you probably wouldn't mind learning and evolving with less struggle.  Whether you are riding the good attraction wave, or want to attract better things to you, it helps to know how you can be more in control, and stay on track in this journey to your own version of fulfillment and success. 

After my own work with this concept of Attraction, with my clients and in my own life, I've distilled some of these ideas to six major areas you can impact to see results. They are your dream design, environment, your mind, your wellness, your spirit and your actions. You could start with any, since they overlap, but for our purposes, let's start here with your Environment. After all, spring is here, and it is the perfect time to ready your environment for new growth. 

You will need to prepare your physical environment to attract what you desire.

Although there are more, here are 5 ways:

1.)  Clear Clutter - Yes, everyone talks about it, but that's because IT'S TRUE!! If you can clear space you will have renewed energy AND you will create room for new things to enter. If you want to attract new clients, clear your old file cabinets. If you have a workspace that is piled up, getting it clear will give you momentum for career growth. Start small if you need to--a wallet, a drawer, a box, and then move on with it. One of my clients got on a roll and moved through her whole house, keeping a dumpster in her driveway for a while. She attracted all kinds of new opportunity in her business and personal life. Create a vacuum and see what enters.

2.) Create a Sacred Space - Is there a place in your home where you feel at ease, comfortable and can create, sit or relax?  A place that makes you automatically unwind and feel at peace? You could probably use even more than one. I have at least three.  Make sure these spaces have the potential to be free of unwanted distractions. In these moments, in spaces like this, you will have an enhanced ability to vision what you want to attract and plan for your future.  By taking the regular time to be in it, you are not only able to focus, vision and create, you are sending a message that you are paying attention to your self, and that you are ready for related opportunities to enter.

3.) Upgrade Your Work and Personal Systems - Explore what systems you can set up personally, that help you balance and function better. If getting your dry-cleaning and groceries delivered to your home weekly gives you two extra hours a week, this is an upgrade in your home system that allows you to attract something more meaningful into that time. When you invest time or money into upgrading the technology, systems or processes you use in your work, you not only function more efficiently, you are making a statement about the level at which you are operating. This is when you are really investing in your personal operating system and will see the returns.

4) Upgrade Your Community and Relationships - Are you in draining work or personal relationships?   If you want to be recognized for great work at your organization---would you ask to be surrounded by a team that performs to a lower standard or a higher one?  If you put up with gossip at lunch, wouldn't you say you are probably missing out on many other positive conversations and relationships that are going on elsewhere? When you enhance your own intrinsic positive energy by spending less time with these people, and create a more positive community, you will be better positioned to attract more of what you want. Challenge yourself to set better boundaries to negative interactions. Hang out with more fun and inspiring people, and watch what shifts. 

5.) Express Your Self - Does your office or living space fully express who you are and your intentions? Are there pictures or objects that represent or inspire you?  Make sure you do a check in all the key areas of your life. After just recently having a second child, it occurred to me to remove a couple of family pictures from my bedroom. You may ask why? I love pictures, (and my children!!) and have them in various rooms of the house--yet, a great place for them is the "family room." I kept my favorites of just my husband and I in our room. As soon as I did that, I felt the energy shift some to the two of us. Having so much emphasis on our precious little ones these days, this was one small way to make sure our relationship is represented somewhere in our home, in some special way.

> Take Action

Which one of these Environmental factors jumps out at you? If it was a strong positive or negative reaction, I would start there. Just taking a couple of steps within one environmental aspect, or across a few, could start the Attraction process for you. I am certain you will see some types of shifts from the beginning, even if subtle.  I'd love to hear about how this goes--please share your stories!

II. Messages from the Masters 

"Getting rid of things may be one of the most liberating things you can do. Although many people can't decide what to get rid of. Let peace of mind be your guide. Ask if something makes you feel more alive and peaceful, or confused and overwhelmed."   - Cecil Andrews, author of “Circle of Simplicity"

 "Having and maintaining plenty of space is more important than getting into yet another hobby, project, or commitment. In other words, make space as important as a new interest possibly could be."    - Thomas Leonard,  Author of The Portable Coach and "Inventor" of Personal Coaching

 III. Coach's Top Picks

Creating True Prosperity, by Shakti Gawain

This time, the bestselling author of Creative Visualization writes about the crux of people's issues related to money and happiness.  With a few principles, perspectives and exercises, her comprehensive and meaningful way of addressing how one can really create a sustainable version of abundance really strikes a chord. This one's on my personal and recommended "attraction" reading list.

IV. News

> Stay tuned for my Creating Soul-Centered Success Circles coming soon!

From the comfort of your own home, yet with the synergy and support of the circle, you can tap into a model for creating exactly the type of fulfillment you are seeking. We will discuss and apply 6 keys that set exciting things in motion for you, personally and professionally! More details to follow.

 

 

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Jill Berquist, PCC, is founder of Berquist Coaching Services, LLC, and a Human Resources professional for over fourteen years--ten of those years with a leading global management and technology consulting firm. As a Career and Executive Coach, Jill works with managers, professionals, executives and entrepreneurs on various issues, from business or career transition, to creating life-balance and realizing one's life vision. Jill's mission is to help others achieve success on their own terms, supporting them in an effortless and enjoyable process of attracting work and life fulfillment.

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